As incredulous as it sounds, some people experience no shame for their actions. Maybe you know the type? Past acquaintance <not even friends> seems to give open invitation. Life in small town, always have to watch your tongue.
Most people of age are generally damaged goods due to life's charming surprises; so have little hope for change.
Would really just not like for this one person in particular to not be involved in my life, in any capacity; and hate to shut the whole thing down, as many enjoy and contribute. But short of being a flaming a-hole; don't think I can **** the ego of this gem dandy.